Years after the fact, it turns out I was right.
Father figures are beneficial to children.
Brief commentary here (May 5 entry).
So there's this on-line community made up mostly of Harvard people. Every time I talk about it, I remember after the fact that everything posted there is subject to a confidentiality clause. In short, what's posted there, stays there. I've (alas) probably violated confi many times just in bloggage. So one more time can't hurt, right? (The basic idea is not to share other people's personal info, but brief recounting of political arguments doesn't seem to violate the spirit of that, does it?)
Anyhow, this one time something about single parents came up. I strongly, intuitively, believe -- well, basically, what the study seems to confirm. Kids are better off with two parents than with one. I got flamed for putting it in gender-specific terms. People (you can guess what axe they had to grind) wondered what a man and a woman had that two men or two women would lack. This study doesn't seem to get into it that way but
at the very least, it confirms what basically everyone knows: a stable couple does a
far better job of parenting than a single parent and a flavor-of-the-month significant other.
(A reasonable conclusion is that people do a better job of taking care of their blood relatives than of their significant other's kids-from-a-prior-relationship.)
Given that I'm so opinionated, and that I'd
like to think I'm reasonably good at analytical thinking, you'd think I wouldn't suck at arguing with people. But it's true. Then again, this particular group used to have one or two token conservatives, one or two moderate "voices of reason," and legions who think basically whatever it is that a typical college student thinks.
Nowadays even the token conservatives are gone, so the moderate voices of reason are themselves (relatively) the token conservatives. So I hear.